Sister Rosemary DeDentro likes the companionship of two fellow Catholic nuns who live with her in a stately brick house near Tower Grove Park.
The nuns pray together, eat together and discuss details of their day as a family might, DeDentro said last week, pride evident in her voice.
Now, the sisters’ religious order wants to add three more nuns to the house. But some of neighbors on Flora Place — including Alderman Steve Conway — oppose the plan.
The sisters have a powerful ally, however: Edward Roth, a lawyer, Police Board member and neighbor.
Roth plans to introduce a zoning change Tuesday that would allow six unrelated people of a religious order to share a house. City rules allow only three.
“The question is whether we, as a community, can reach a balance between tolerance and stability,” Roth said. “I don’t think that people who devote their lives to religious vocation should have to ask my permission to be my neighbor.”
Opponents say religion is not the issue.
Conway, a Democratic alderman in the 8th Ward, is Catholic.
“This is not a Catholic thing,” he said last week. “This is about whether or not this will encourage other groups who have group living arrangements to come live on Flora Place.”
Last October, the three sisters moved into the seven-bedroom house after the Daughters of Charity of St. Vincent de Paul bought it for about $280,000. The nuns were among nearly 90 women who were displaced after their provincial house in Normandy was sold to the University of Missouri at St. Louis.
Since last year, the Daughters of Charity have bought seven houses across the St. Louis area for nuns, including the one on Flora Place. The organization plans to buy two more houses in the St. Louis area.
Sister Marie Therese Sedgwick, provincial of the Daughters of Charity, said Catholic organizations buy houses all over the country for nuns and usually don’t have any problems.
In fact, the Daughters of Charity recently received a variance that allows four sisters to live together in another house on Oakhill Avenue.
Most of the nuns live in groups of four to six in a house.
“We commit to living together for common goals — our spiritual life,” said DeDentro, 55, a 33-year member of the Daughters of Charity.
DeDentro also counsels and visits children and parents at a home in St. Louis for abused children and children who have AIDS or are HIV-positive.
DeDentro said she considers the other sisters a “religious family.”
“The question is, what is a family?” DeDentro asked. “Which kind of family enriches a broader community?”
Flora Place is a six-block long street with 155 houses in the Shaw neighborhood. The estimated value of the houses ranges from about $100,000 to about $300,000, residents said.
Dave Reid, president of the Flora Place Association, said he is trying to negotiate a resolution with the nuns. But he acknowledged last week that he had yet to schedule a meeting with the Daughters of Charity.
He added that he believed the nuns were violating a street convenant that restricts houses to families only. Roth said there is no such covenant.
Bob Niemeier, who lives next door to the sisters, said he doesn’t believe they should live in the house because he is opposed to “corporate ownership.”
The house is owned by the Daughters of Charity, a sponsor of Ascension Health, a multibillion-dollar national health care system that runs hospitals and clinics across the country.
The order itself was founded in the 1600s by St. Vincent de Paul. It has been involved in a variety of charity efforts.
“This threatens the residential quality of the street,” Niemeier said. “What happens when another corporation wants to open a bed and breakfast?”
But Roth said his neighbors should spend their efforts on other issues in the city.
“We have a lot of problems in the city of St. Louis, but too many nuns is not one of them,” Roth said.